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This post was last edited by Thank goodness you're here on 2015-11-30 at 11:22. 1. It’s not the “homework” that has a problem; it’s “love” that has an issue. 　　Many parents, as soon as they get home and see their children, the first thing they ask is, “Have you finished your homework?” ” 　　This sentence reflects the weakness of love and the lack of ability to love among many parents in China. 　　The child cries inwardly, \"Do you love me or my homework?\" ”Children are unable to express their inner thoughts rationally, so they resort to acting out in order to resist their parents: talking back, procrastinating, being fidgety, staying silent, causing trouble… Parents who have the ability to show love, upon returning home and seeing their children, will first greet them by saying, “Baby, mom’s back. Mom missed you very much. Are you tired today?” Don’t rush to do your homework; play for a while before starting. ”Children often strive harder because their parents understand them; “Mom, I’ll play after I finish my homework; I’m not tired.” 　　Children strive only for \"love\"; those who do not study hard out of love may not be truly striving. As children grow up, many problems gradually come to light. 　　2. Put yourself in the child’s shoes and understand their feelings. 　　After a tiring day at work, you come home and want to rest for a while; you don’t feel like cooking. At that moment, your husband shows no concern for you and instead asks right away, \"Is the food ready yet?\" Why haven’t you gone to cook yet! ”How would you feel? 　　You might have had two options at that time: first, to cook in frustration, accumulating complaints until they reached a certain level and then erupted, causing negative consequences ； The second approach is to express one’s emotions by complaining directly or even arguing, which has an immediate negative impact. 　　Put yourself in their shoes – this is what children hear every day when they come home: \"Have you finished your homework?\" ”“Why haven’t you gone to do your homework yet! ”The true feelings, and the idea of \"hating one’s parents\" is actually a consequence of \"hating studying*. 　　3. Please ask the parents to check if the child is tired from flying. 　　After a tiring day at work and returning home, you want to rest for a while and don’t feel like cooking. Your husband will ask with concern, \"Honey, what’s wrong?\" If you’re tired, don’t cook; let’s go out for dinner! ”You’ll think your husband is so wonderful, and the fatigue in your heart will disappear quickly: “Don’t go out to eat; I’ll prepare it for you right away.” ”When people feel understood and cared for, they are most willing to make efforts for those who care for and understand them. 　　Please, parents, never worry about how high their children can fly; instead, focus on whether they are tired from flying. What children need is love, not demands. When parents truly love their children, those children will set demands on themselves; when a child does not set such demands on itself, it can be seen that either the child is living in a situation of lack of love or in an environment of overindulgence.