I feel like there’s a lot of negative energy here
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As someone with over 10 years of work experience, let me share my personal insights: First, quite often, you have to learn to accept your fate. To say one accepts their fate means not to constantly regret the decisions they made in the past, but rather to base themselves on reality and find the path that suits them best ； Don’t envy what others have either. Happiness isn’t about what you possess, but about what you feel – and that’s very important ； Secondly, view your career planning from a relatively high perspective. Some say that in any of the 360 professions, there are always outstanding individuals. I personally strongly agree. If you follow the path that others have taken, it might lead to a dead end; but if you stick to your own path and make improving your professional skills your top priority, you can create a path of your own that others will admire ； Thirdly, there are no noble or humble occupations, and no rich or poor industries. As long as you ensure that you make progress every day, given how vast China and the world are, eventually you will become an expert in your field. So, what is there to worry about? Yesterday, someone told me, “Ah, I realize that my poor English skills put me at a huge disadvantage.” I plan to learn *5 English words per day, which means *1825 new words in a year. Over three years, that would be 5475 new words. Adding those to the 4000 words I already know, wouldn’t that make me an expert in English? I said, “Bullshit. With a plan like yours, you’re doomed to never become the person you hope to be in life.” From middle school to high school to college, teachers kept pressuring, urging, and scolding you for a total of 10 years. How many words did you actually manage to memorize? What I mean by this is that when making a study plan, one should not be overly eager for quick results; instead, one should give oneself plenty of time to grow into an expert. Fourth, learn to find joy in your work rather than treating it as a task. Many people simply regard work as a means to make money, but they forget that over 50% of the time they’re awake in their lives is spent dealing with work. If you cannot try to find joy in your work, then your life is a waste to you. If you can never find joy, then try to slow down the pace of work and focus on improving its quality. Haha, nonsense; it’s not necessarily true~~~
That’s absolutely right; I agree. Sometimes learning something is a gradual process, and you have to consider the environment in which you find yourself
Here’s a bowl of toxic motivational speech for you~;P As someone who has been working for over 10 years, let me share my personal insights: First, regret arises because it’s impossible to go back in time and find some so-called better path； Envy arises because one basically has no power to make changes, so one has to start acting like Ah Q ； Secondly, improving one’s professional competence may not be very useful; improvements that are not tied to any benefits are basically of little use ； Thirdly, there are distinctions between high and low-status occupations, as well as between wealthy and poor industries. It’s just that you can’t argue with others about why they can sit there and make money, while you have to go out to the field and work hard without earning much in return So what if you become an expert? The more you do, the more mistakes you make, the more you’re excluded, and the more depressed you feel. Fourthly, work equals making money; whether you like it or not, people are just adaptable.
YES, THIS IS LIFE.
The original poster is absolutely right; it’s better to be content.
I’m here to take a look around; I feel quite lost
That’s a good point; as long as there is progress, even if it’s just a little bit each day, that’s still good
What’s the use of making progress? It’s all the same in the end; I feel very confused.
This post was last edited by lvb001 on 2016-2-18 at 10:13. bg1.png I’m also someone with over 10 years of work experience. In today’s economic environment, industries such as petrochemicals, heating, and power generation still constitute the main force in the construction sector. One has to deal with rebar, pipes, tanks, sheets, wires, and concrete all day long; the salaries aren’t high, and it’s difficult to balance family life and work. Most people are physically and mentally exhausted, and they can only rely on a sense of self-comfort to get through it.:) Keep going! http://bbs.hcbbs.com/static/image/hrline/4.gif
Hehe, the insights of these experts are all really spot-on! worship