【Haichuan Irrigation Co., Ltd. Tea House】Advise reconciliation or separation?
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This post was last edited by Ruan Zhonghua on 2015-10-20 at 13:13. Welcome to the small tea house of Haichuan Guanshui Co., Ltd. We have armchairs ready to accommodate guests from all over. There are those who are good at certain things; perhaps they made a mistake from the start, and getting married was only due to having children. Yesterday I heard that my friend was beaten by her husband over a trivial matter. Although she had told my wife many times before that she wanted to get a divorce, it seems she’s now determined to do so. But the child is only one year old; if she leaves him with that man, she’s afraid he might abuse the child and treat him badly. That man had no intention of showing any remorse for hitting someone; if it could be done once, it could be done again... As the saying goes, \"It’s better to destroy ten temples than to ruin one marriage.\" So, should one advise them to get back together or to separate? --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- The art of tea ceremony is the way to appreciate the beauty of tea. It is also regarded as an art of preparing and drinking tea, a set of social etiquettes centered around tea, and a way of life through which one can cultivate oneself through tea. Drinking tea can calm the mind, soothe the spirit, cultivate one’s temperament, and eliminate distracting thoughts. When going to work every day, one has to face the computer, and its radiation can cause significant damage to the eyes. It is advisable to drink tea in one’s free time; tea helps us rehydrate, protect against radiation, boost alertness, regulate mood, clean the mouth, and even aid in weight loss. A gentle reminder from the small tea house: (1) Drink tea according to the seasons: drink flower tea in spring, green tea in summer, oolong tea in autumn, and black tea in winter. (2) Drinking tea at work: Green tea is suitable in the morning, chrysanthemum and goji berry tea in the afternoon, and cassia seed tea in the evening.
Advocate peace. When both parties are angry, they argue back and forth, saying whatever harsh things come to mind. The emotions have passed, and they’re still a happy family. It’s hard to persuade them to leave as an outsider. Beating someone is an extreme example, but such families can be found everywhere throughout history and across different cultures; this should not be a reason to urge them to separate. But the person who struck must pay a sufficient price to make him realize his mistake. As a woman, it’s not good to make too much of a fuss about this; being too stiff is also not advisable. The woman’s family went to the police station and asked the police to intervene. The woman’s parents should not be afraid of offending their son-in-law, but they must not encourage their daughter to argue with him.
I’m afraid that the act of hitting people will keep happening over and over again. It’s better to have short-term pain than long-term pain. However, Chinese tradition is to encourage reconciliation rather than separation.
Advocate peace. However, it is necessary to make the man realize his mistake so that he never dares to hit anyone again. Just chatting – if you’re good at flirting with the opposite sex, aren’t you afraid that her husband might come and beat you?
Regarding marriage, advice from others doesn’t help much; it’s ultimately the decision of the people involved. As for a man beating his wife, I have only one word to say: \"Get divorced.\" There’s no room for compromise.
It depends on the situation. . . How many times had he beaten people before this one? It used to be just arguments, but this time it escalated to physical violence; so has this woman made up her mind? Arguing is one thing, but hitting people is never right. . Under normal circumstances, it is advisable to encourage reconciliation, but if the person keeps hitting their spouse after marriage, then it is appropriate to suggest separation. . .
This needs to keep up with the times and be addressed based on actual circumstances. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
It’s a bit extreme, isn’t it? As for what exactly constitutes ‘fighting’, and why fight at all. It’s not very responsible to advise someone to leave without being clear about these things. After all, some people have princess syndrome – pushing them is considered hitting them.
China is not a friend of women; it must be a story!
If something like this happened to me, I would definitely leave, and I’d try to take the child with me to raise him properly~~~ If I keep holding back, I’ll regret it for the rest of my life~~~