How important is dad? Just read this article and you’ll know!

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Introduction: A person’s ability to achieve success depends 20% on their own efforts after birth, and 80% on the teachings of their father. 　　Dads should infuse their children with positive, sunny, and energetic qualities through both actions and words. Dad’s negative attitude, pessimistic thoughts, and harsh words have a profound impact on a child’s physical and mental development, affecting even the character of the person they become throughout their life, particularly in terms of their behavior toward friends, family, and especially the mother of the children. 　　Dad is holding a phone in his hand but still wants the child to do their homework seriously. Dad slumps on the sofa yet expects children to sit and stand properly; dad spits everywhere yet wants children to be hygienic; dad is always late yet expects children to be honest… It’s like trying to teach a bull to play music. The child’s lack of cooperation simply means that the child isn’t a genius either. 　　Father, how important you are! If you can spend at least 15 minutes every day with your child wholeheartedly, your baby’s progress will not disappoint you. 　　Psychologists have found that 20% of a person’s ability to achieve success depends on their own efforts, while 80% depends on what their father teaches them. 　　As an \"important person\" in a child’s life, the same word of affirmation, when spoken by the father, has 50 times more impact on the child than when spoken by the mother. 　　A mother’s influence on her child determines whether the child can become an independent person ； And it is the father who shapes a child’s view of life ； It is related to the formation of personality. 　　In family education, which is more important, the father or the mother? 　　The answer is that they are all important. The quality of a person’s relationship with their mother can affect the happiness of their future marriage ； The quality of the relationship with one’s father can affect whether a child is brave and confident, as well as whether they will achieve success in their future career. 　　Building a close parent-child relationship with a child requires gradual effort on a daily basis; it cannot be achieved overnight. High-quality companionship means spending at least 15 minutes each day focusing on the child! In other words, when spending time with their children, the father or mother is fully engaged in interacting with them, without any distractions – thinking neither about work nor about stress ； Of course, all of these exist. 　　It can be reading books and telling stories with children ； It can be playing games or ball games with children ； It can be listening to some music together ； It could be sitting on the beach with children, listening to the sound of the waves and explaining things about nature ； It can be climbing mountains with children, sitting on the ground together to study nature, and observing small animals, flowers, as well as grass and trees. 　　It can be to listen without judgment, without blame, without contempt, without criticism, without interruption – simply to listen quietly, with appreciation, focus, and happiness, as the child shares their thoughts. While listening, parents can use expressions such as: Hmm, Oh, Wow, I see, And then? What else? What’s next? Waiting for a response. 　　During the time spent together, have as much physical contact as possible. Pat the child’s shoulder, touch the child’s head, take the child’s small hand in one’s own, hug the child, and so on. There are many methods, and the most important thing is: in that moment, as a parent, are you fully present. 　　Many Chinese fathers believe that taking care of children is the mother’s responsibility; they simply play with their kids when they are in a good mood, have no idea about the details that children care about, and are at a loss when children act up, leaving it to the mother to clean up the mess. One of the major drawbacks of children being raised mainly by their mothers is that they become weak, lack confidence and a desire to explore, as well as the rationality needed to handle problems. This is due to the mother’s meticulous care. 　　In a child’s heart, you are very important. So, fathers, perhaps you may be successful in your careers, but career success cannot make up for failures in parenting. Take action! Put down your phone, leave behind computer games and parties with alcohol, and spend quality time with your child – playing games with them, listening to what they have to say, cooking a meal for them with care, and watching them enjoy eating it! You will find that his admiration and joy are things his mother cannot provide. You are someone the child cannot do without, and that is something every father takes pride in and is happy about. 　　Dads, don’t use being busy with work as an excuse. Children are your greatest treasure. No matter how successful you are in your career, if your children fail to turn out well, that is still a man’s greatest failure. 　　Dads, spend more time with your children and your family. Because, in the hearts of your wife and children, you are as tall as a mountain. You are important!