In the name of love

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(1) From the very first day we opened our eyes to see this world, all we have seen are two types of people: men and women. They belong to two completely different camps, and in order to completely subdue the other side, they fight each other to the death. According to an ancient legend, there is something called love that can completely end this war. So everyone rushed to look for it, to imagine it, only to discover, covered in wounds, that this feeling had also been created by other people in some study room. As a result, everyone became even more desperate, more suffering, and started to strangle each other to death. (2) In fact, men and women have never really understood each other properly. Men are not hard to understand; it’s just that no one has ever told you. (3) Does love really exist as such a thing? If it exists, why does it have uneven faces everywhere? If it doesn’t exist, why do some people cry for it, laugh for it, or die for it? Is love, in the end, the biggest lie we invent to meet our practical needs? (4) For the sake of living, it is better to die than to live. (5) Everyone knows, to a greater or lesser extent, a few people who are completely useless yet extremely enthusiastic. This enthusiasm stems from confidence in oneself. This extremely strong sense of belief also prevents them from ever realizing the annoyance and fear others feel toward them. (6) Love without a reason is true love. But love without a reason is unreliable. (7) Is love completely irrational? When we ask the person we love: Why do you like me? She replied: I like you simply because I like you. When there is no reason or explanation, should we really believe in this statement? If that’s really the case, then how does love come to an end? (8) Love at first sight is the same: the moment we see someone for the first time, we feel a strong liking for them. So what else could it be besides appearance and temperament? We won’t fall in love at first sight with a pig that has a beautiful soul. We deliberately ignore these because we want to make ourselves seem noble. (9) As everyone and their partner walk among the crowd, they desire to be noticed; they feel a sense of unity in jealous glances, and a sense of separation in sympathetic ones. Such glances are a silent force that can bring you together as well as gradually drive you apart. It’s actually quite vain, yet also practical; love can be ignored at this point. (10) You are his girlfriend, he is your boyfriend, and you’ve been together for a long time. One day, suddenly, he did something that offended you, and then you had a argument. Then you met me, and you ended up with me, maybe to forget some unpleasant things, or maybe to get revenge on him. It doesn’t matter; anyway, you still can’t do without him now, and he can’t do without you either. Isn’t that great? (11) No matter how painful the circumstances, I can still discover my own value. (12) Isn’t that how feelings work? You stab me, I stab you; you stab me again, and I stab you yet again. In any case, it’s enough to count the wounds on each other’s bodies. (13) Actually, sometimes liking someone doesn’t necessarily require any reason or outcome, right?