I feel like I always have preconceived notions first~

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Let me talk about a recent software installation issue. I previously installed the ASPEN and PDMS PJ software on my laptop, and since the installation packages had been tested on my desktop computer earlier with no problems. But after it was successfully installed in the notebook, it wouldn’t open and crashed, with no error message shown. Then I naturally assumed it was my small laptop that couldn’t handle the software. . . All kinds of annoyance. It was not until the same installation package caused the same problem on another desktop that I realized it wasn’t my netbook that couldn’t handle it, but there was an issue with the PJ installation. Actually, such a small matter can immediately reflect my inner thoughts. From the start, I didn’t trust my own instincts when it came to using those software programs; so as soon as a problem arose, I would immediately look for the cause in the configuration settings. It’s a serious preconception on my part. The same thing happens at work – whenever I feel unhappy, it shows up in various small matters, and I always feel like I’m being targeted, which makes me even more upset. Eventually, things reach an irreparable point. This annoying habit has caused me a lot of trouble, yet there’s no way to get rid of it. . . . .