Remember the good people do for you

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　Remembering the good others do can help cultivate a humble character in oneself. No one is perfect; being tolerant of others is being tolerant of oneself ； Treating others well is, in fact, treating yourself well! People who focus on others’ faults and cannot tolerate others necessarily have a high opinion of themselves, fail to see their own shortcomings, and thus miss the opportunity to improve ； Those who remember the small acts of kindness shown to them tend to strive to emulate those qualities, humbly learning from the strengths of others. As a result, they acquire more and more positive traits, their interpersonal appeal increases, and they end up possessing greater spiritual wealth. 　　Among friends, remembering the good things about others will help you gain more friends. Among family members and relatives, if one remembers the good things about others, the family will surely be filled with harmony. It is ten thousand times better to remember people’s good qualities and live with a grateful heart, than to keep in mind their faults and shortcomings and live in pain with a resentful heart. If that’s the case, why don’t we remember the good things about others? 　　Some people receive more than just small acts of kindness; for example, the nurturing care of their parents, the wise guidance of their teachers, the concern of relatives and friends, the enthusiastic assistance of colleagues, and the trust of their supervisors. All these are important factors in our growth and progress. But the difficulty lies in whether, after receiving help, one can feel grateful and show appreciation in return. 　　If we remember the good qualities of others and are more tolerant of their shortcomings, over time we will only see the good in them; we will remember only the positive aspects of others in our hearts. Then the sky will seem blue, the water green, our mood will be cheerful, and the world will appear beautiful.