Should I date my best friend?
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Recently, one of my good friends broke up with her boyfriend. We are very close, but I don’t know when it happened, but I started to feel affection for her. Friends, do you think I should confess my feelings to her? I’m very scared; if she refuses, it will affect our friendship. If she accepts, then once we break up one day, we won’t even be able to remain friends, and I’ll regret it for the rest of my life... It’s really confusing – I feel like I’m sick. What should I do? I hope everyone can engage in active discussions; it doesn’t matter if something is right or wrong – I just want to hear everyone’s opinions. Thank you! ~
There are things you’ll regret for the rest of your life if you don’t do them
Be bold and confess your feelings; otherwise, keeping guessing will drive you crazy!
This is the final struggle, unite for tomorrow!
This post was last edited by cflt111 on 10/9/2015 at 10:26. Try to pursue it; you can give it a shot first.
If it’s true love, one should definitely confess, but it’s better to do so gradually. Recently, I can chat with her every day and comfort her, and confess my feelings after some time has passed
First of all, they have already broken up, so logically it’s okay to confess your feelings. How can you know if you’ll be rejected if you don’t even try? Be more confident and take the initiative. Also, you said you have feelings for her – but does she have similar feelings for you? That’s something you need to figure out on your own. Since you are already good friends, friendship can sometimes be even more precious than love. If a confession is rejected, the person who confessed will feel embarrassed, and the person who refused it will also feel awkward; in such cases, your friendship might come to an end. Unless she finds a new boyfriend or gets married, it’s still possible for you to remain friends. Besides, saying “If she accepts, once we break up one day, we won’t even be able to stay friends” is thinking too far ahead; the more you think about it, the more bonds there will be. Finally, here’s a message for you: “Once you hold hands, don’t let go; once you let go, don’t look back.”
Well, it’s easy to fall in love, but hard to get along together! Since you get along so well as friends, falling in love might not be that difficult! It’s that one,,, give it a try; once it works, cherish it!
If you like someone, you should express your feelings boldly; otherwise, you’ll regret it for a lifetime.
If you two can break up, why do you still care about whether you can be friends in the future? What’s the logic behind that?
Be more proactive in contacting her and treat her well. Let’s take a look first; if it’s interesting, then we’ll go on. Don’t be reckless:lol