Child, don’t lose yourself

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We are all the same; we are equally lonely, equally fragile, and spend countless days pondering about the past, the present, and the future； Thinking about oneself, others. Who doesn’t have a past? Who doesn’t have memories? Who isn’t injured? Time allows us to address all the past with a smile, but who has truly forgotten? Who has truly let go? Have you really let go? Do you still remember those who once walked alongside you? Or has it been forgotten? How many people have become numb, seemingly observing the world indifferently, when in fact it is merely a thick layer of disguise. Beneath that face that seems calm yet also numb, how much pain lies hidden there, how much pain that one no longer wishes to mention? You think that by letting go, you think that from the moment each of you embarked on a different path in life, you accepted it and let go ； But are you sure you can mention everything from the past so nonchalantly? Why are we born? Where does death go? Since everything is just a process, why cling to it so tightly? In the dimension of time, everything becomes both adorable and terrifying. Did you ever fall in love before? Love or friendship? Did you truly give your all in the past? How many people have been scattered across the world due to the caprices of fate? But, isn’t fate ultimately still within people’s control? It’s just that it’s not just your will alone; there are things you have to admit that you can’t do on your own. In your dreams too, you recall someone’s face, which gradually fades away ； You too will recall a certain feeling through music, and end up in tears. When those past memories come to mind casually, will you still smile and say that you’ve let go? Perhaps everyone is different; different environments, different experiences, and different childhoods lay the foundation for a unique style of life and determine the patterns of one’s subconscious throughout life. Those, perhaps, mostly come from the family, from parents, but they have given us their best, haven’t they? They have their limitations, and so do we Many people, trapped by love, even end their own lives; perhaps others will laugh and say they don’t know how to cherish their own lives. But is it really his fault? Maybe it’s strange, maybe not. Tragedies of character and style – many things are merely accidental. To truly walk the path he walked, do you necessarily have to be stronger than him? Everyone comes to this world with their own compulsory lessons to learn, only those lessons vary from person to person. However, those assignments are not easy. At the moment of choice, by crossing over, one ascends to a higher realm of life ； If not crossed, it might head in a completely different direction. I’ve always believed that what we give and what we receive are proportional to each other; it’s just that sometimes we need to look at things from a different perspective in order to see our rewards. It’s difficult to admit one’s shortcomings, but once you truly accept them, your life will reach a higher level. Everyone is an individual, but life indeed has different stages; if you believe it, these stages are related to age, though not in a strict manner. There are always some ways of thinking that you cannot understand, and there are always certain levels that you cannot reach. Thus, a vast panorama unfolds before you, presenting a different picture. But you are still you; you can observe others’ stories objectively, yet you can only be yourself subjectively. In other words, you must make choices along different paths and at different levels. Not choosing is also a choice. If that’s the case, why not do your best to follow the path you think is the best and move forward bravely? Some people give too much of their focus to others; how can that be safe? You think that the more you give, the more you will get in return. Yes, but it may not be in the way you imagine; yet that too is a form of gain – correcting wrong patterns in life is also a form of achievement, isn’t it? It’s just that, after being hurt so thoroughly once, who can truly be as sincere and unguarded as they were before? Many times, loss isn’t the worst thing; what’s most terrifying is when your sincere trust is destroyed, and you become afraid and no longer dare to trust again. Perhaps only two kinds of feelings cannot be sustained for a long time: one is when the flow of love between the two parties ceases, and the other is when there is an unfair flow of love. How can this last? You must understand that you can lose everything, but you cannot lose yourself. When you give yourself completely to someone else, you should be prepared to be abandoned. If you don’t even love yourself, who do you think will cherish you? Who do you think would believe that you would cherish her? Even if you don’t think that way. Child, there is no one else outside but you yourself. Child, you can lose anyone, but don’t lose yourself. Child, find someone as warm as the sun who will drive away all your sadness for you