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What kind of despicable and hypocritical people are those bosses who are more suitable to be entrusted with one’s life?

2016-05-15View Original

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After working for half a year, it’s enough to have money for food and to meet basic living needs. Mental pleasure and life’s pursuits seem to keep falling lower and lower. 1. Although the idea of devoting one’s entire life to a job is not correct, especially since I’m still a young person in the prime of my life, I joined the company only to make money to support myself, yet I constantly felt like running away from it. Does that mean I’m not suited to stay at this company? 2. The boss is a person who thinks he’s very smart (and maybe he is somewhat intelligent), but has zero emotional intelligence; (1) he is extremely curious about employees’ private lives: how many people are in their family? What jobs are they, respectively? How many friends? What jobs are they, respectively? Do you have any relatives in this city? What jobs are they, respectively? How many roommates are there? What jobs are they, respectively? (2) While on a business trip, persuading female employees (although there are male employees present) to drink with Party A ; When drunk, they become talkative and keep saying all kinds of things about you ; He often “teases” female employees, forcing them to stay alone in a desolate small town on-site for a month. (3) Showing disdain and helplessness toward other employees in front of those who are on a business trip together; the inner thought should be: Good heavens, what kind of trash have I hired! (4) Since I joined the company, not a single task has been clearly assigned to me; there’s no reward for doing things well, and when I make mistakes, they don’t tell me face-to-face instead criticizing me behind my back with other employees. 3. The company’s only older female employee spends her days gossiping among the younger staff about this and that. The provision for the elderly is vividly reflected in her case. 4. The most important thing: I almost had a fight with my boss just now over work issues! I think I should change jobs again. It’s purely a thread for complaining; those who are unhappy lately can come and vent, and those with good ideas or suggestions can also share them.
Reply #22016-05-15
This post was last edited by ylb913 on 2016-5-15 21:44. We’re men; we can take abuse.
Reply #32016-05-15
No reward for doing things well, and no direct criticism if mistakes are made
Reply #42016-05-15
Generally, one has to change jobs a few times to be considered perfect, right?~~~~
Reply #52016-05-16
With the economy in a downturn, if one has to leave, they need to find a new employer first
Reply #62016-05-16
OU BA I’m a tough girl
Reply #72016-05-16
After working for half a year, one might almost get into a conflict with the boss; it’s necessary to exercise some control over that overwhelming urge in children; P
Reply #82016-05-16
I’m wondering if many people have bosses just like mine! A warrior will die for those who understand him! I’m willing to die, it’s a pity. .
Reply #92016-05-16
Calm down and assess the current situation: determine what can be changed and what cannot, as well as what you like and what you don’t. Complaining endlessly is useless; only by staying calm can problems be solved
Reply #102016-05-16
I think it’s because of being young. I don’t have much experience either. But people have this kind of temper right after graduation too; they can turn hostile at any moment. I thought it was about taking responsibility for my work back then, but now it seems like complete stupidity. Because of this temper, I think I wasted almost three years. So, I really agree with what a colleague once told me: do your best; while learning and improving, you also hone your enthusiasm. If you truly feel you can’t go on, it’s better to part ways amicably. It’s not anyone’s fault; it’s just that one’s adaptability is poor.

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