For young parents, how much time should we set aside each day after work to spend with our children?
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Everyone: For young parents, how much time should we spend with our children every day after work? How do everyone do it? Let’s share together! :lol
It means not yet; I should spend as much time as possible with them.
Consider the child’s age and whether there are children of a similar age in the vicinity! If it’s the child themselves, then it’s sufficient to pay appropriate attention to what they are doing; but if they are outside the home, constant attention must be paid to their safety ； If there are children of the same age around, unless there is fighting or stealing, parents are generally not needed to get involved; in such cases, it’s sufficient to go and check on them occasionally to provide guidance.
Children at different stages require different amounts of companionship and in different ways; the only one who is qualified to answer this question is probably the child itself
My son is 15 months old. Normally, I get home at 6 p.m. after work every day. From 6 p.m. to 8 p.m., I spend time playing with him, watching him play, feeding him, bathing him, and teaching him to recognize fruits and animals. Go to bed at eight, play around in bed a bit more, then go to sleep. Basically, the time after 8:30 belongs to me. On weekends, aside from sleeping, I’m basically with them the whole time.
This post was last edited by cflt111 on 2015-9-23 08:59. When the child was young, I would spend most of my time after work playing with him; once he started school and had his own space, I had less time to spend with him.
As long as it’s not a deadly job, during free time (after work or on weekends) I spend time with my child reading books, playing games, going shopping, visiting amusement parks, telling stories, etc. Usually it’s about an hour per day, while on weekends it can be several hours. Teaching by example, the joy of family life. Those who often play with children are responsible men; don’t use working overtime to make money as an excuse – that is a sign of laziness and selfishness. Over time, children will pick up on this, and it will be difficult for them to understand things when they grow up. There are many real-life examples, so I’m not exaggerating.
If the child likes to be with you, do your best. The key issue now is that children are all captivated by various electronic devices.
So it’s even more necessary to snatch it from the electric tiger’s mouth