What hidden codes lie behind the criticism?

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Thanks to the existence of language, we have to interact with various people in our lives, at work, and in our studies, in order to build closer relationships between us. Yet it is often at such times that various unpleasant situations arise; many sources of unhappiness stem from small matters. If we observe carefully, it’s not hard to see that whenever conflicts arise, there are always those who are eager to keep lecturing the other person! So, why do these people always like to criticize others? What lies behind criticism in professional interactions? For example, when all the employees are in a meeting room discussing an advertising concept, with everyone thinking about the design and able to speak at any time, if you come up with a really good idea, something interesting happens: instead of praise or approval, you face various criticisms and expressions of dissatisfaction, such as claims that the idea isn’t mature enough and needs further consideration ； If done this way, it might not be very effective ； Doing this in this way will result in very high costs, and more efforts are needed to address those costs. . . . . . In any case, it’s about finding faults with the plan you proposed, expressing dissatisfaction – why is it different from what we thought? So, what exactly is their focus? What exactly do they want to express about themselves? Even in the United States, President George Washington was called a \"hypocrite\" and a \"fraud,\" and in newspapers he was depicted as a prisoner destined for execution. So what was the purpose of those who insulted and slandered Washington using such methods? Whether it’s something that’s utterly normal around us or President Washington, we find that there are always people willing to offer unreasonable criticism of it There’s a saying that’s quite true: “The braver the dog, the more satisfied it feels when it kicks.” Criticism allows one to demonstrate their own value and intelligence by pointing out others’ successes; they believe that by following their advice, one will become more successful, and that success is thanks to their criticism! Ultimately, it boils down to the weaknesses of human nature; whenever a person speaks, they always want to express something Criticizing others is just to seek a sense of self-satisfaction! To highlight one’s own value and to be valued by others! As a result, it often happens that those of low character take great pleasure in the slightest mistake made by successful people! From the perspective of critics, jealousy and arrogance always lie behind their criticism! But conversely, for those who are criticized, criticism stemming from envy is also an acknowledgment of our achievements! Appendix: Behind criticism lies jealousy, and such criticism comes from \"enemies.\" Often, the criticism from enemies can truly reflect one’s own shortcomings; why not use that criticism to improve oneself? If we encounter accusations or criticism from others on our journey ahead, why not calm down, smile calmly, and reflect on whether we haven’t done well enough? Detailed quote: Unreasonable criticism is often a disguised form of praise! This article is intended solely for applying to be listed on Sohu’s public platform; it is original work by me, so please respect originality!